The Everlasting Father

 

THE EVERLASTING FATHER.

The might, existence and the grace of God is inexplicable. How about His immortality? Simply beyond human comprehension. He is going to last forever, and forever will be a father. A man is not just being called a Father if there be no children. No earthly father will last forever. Death awaits all. He begat all men, He is the father of all.

Jesus came to the world several years ago, He died, resurrected and lives forever . Memorial service can be held in remembrance of a deceased family member or friend, their birthdays can even be remembered yearly. Celebrating Christmas is not because He is dead and we are remembering His unfailing love, but rather, we are marking a great turn around in the history of man with the coming of this saviour. In other words, we are simply saying “Thank you Jesus for coming to this world, though you’ve been gone before I was made, but thank you because your grace is eternal, and will last for several generations to come, I’m happy am a part of this everlasting grace”.

If He is  not a father, He wouldn’t have come at all.

“Hey Sandra, what do I get for you this Christmas?

You  promised me a present last year too ” Sandra complained

” I’m sorry dear, that was the only year I didn’t buy you a present, I will get you two to make it up with you this time ”

Sandra ‘s dad promised Sandra a gift last Christmas, but he couldn’t keep to his word. God promised the coming of messiah decades before He came. He fulfilled His promise, and every moment this gift (Jesus), is ever available, Jesus is not rationed, He is the messiah and available for all. As you’re getting your presents this Christmas, ask God for an Everlasting Gift, and that’s Jesus. More of Him in you and I.

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All Things are Possible | Powerful God

POWERFUL GOD

Power comes from the Latin word potere, which means “to be able.” But things with power are much more than able — they’re able to exert a lot of force. “The powers that be” are those who hold authority, and “the power behind the throne” refers to the people who exert influence without being formally in charge. Definition at Vocabulary.com. One way or the other, everyone have power, it only varies. I have the power to do whatever I want to do according to the level of strength I’ve got. Power is not limited to supernatural exhibition, power can control. The president of this country has authority over the country, he is in charge, that’s power. Parents have power over their children. The clergy man have power over his congregation, the shepherd has power over his sheep.

Some people are not powerful in themselves, but powerful because there is someone behind them, that’s the power behind the throne, and others are powerful in themselves. You fall into either of the group or both at a time if possible(superficial explanation) . No matter how powerful a man is, he is not powerful in himself because someone have the power to take away his breath. So every human is under “the power behind the throne” . I called the first explanation superficial because that’s what it is, it is only a false power when you think you are powerful on your own. Only God is powerful on His own.

God made everything, including that powerful man that’s causing chaos in the world. God can stop him, so his power knows limit. But only God’s power knows no limit. In physics, power is defined as the rate of doing work or  the amount of energy consumed per unit time. Power encompasses energy and time. Time in the sense of how fast, and energy in the sense of how much can be done. So putting it together, the question of how much one can  do within a given time is power. I can carry a bag of cement but I will spend ages carrying it and putting it down, but a grown man will carry it and deliver it like Flash. We both carried it but there was a difference in the energy and the time.

Christmas is few days away, you see, God is not a magician but a powerful God, what magician use is more or less like an illusion. Those are not real. Struggling with something since the year started? God is powerful, He will do it for you. The Jesus we are celebrating came to this world in a powerful manner, conceived by the power of the Holy Spirit, no one on earth could do that, not even the most powerful man on earth. The name of Jesus is Powerful God, none can be compared with Him, every other powers are not power, there is just one powerful God which is Jesus.

Is your situation that hopeless? C’mon, Jesus can do it, His name wrought wonders . As Christmas is coming, one can merry and forget his sorrows and depression, it won’t be long before you remember them again, but why not do it this way? Before and during Christmas, why not talk to Him in your heart, trust me He came to this world to conquer your battles, don’t forget this. I want to also enjoy Christmas by talking to Jesus

He is powerful, full of power. There is nothing He can not do, with Him, All Things Are Possible.

I Am Stranded | Counselor

COUNSELOR

Many  times in life, I usually know what to do or the direction to take, just to be sure, I could decide to ask someone if my decision is good or not. And other times, I do not even know what to do, then I table the matter to someone, then I get my way. Other times I don’t know what to do and no one knows what I can do or I believe no one will be able to give me wise counsel on this, then I go to God.

These are three different scenarios, God must be the center of every decision, even after I’m being told what to do, it’s still my choice to choose what to do. I must have been clouded with some emotions or other things that fights good judgement, so telling someone would help me a bit and then I decide what to do.

Even after asking God, it’s still my decision to go for it or not. Whether there is a Solomon very close to my room, or a David with a kind heart in my abode, God must be the reason for my actions, both the big ones and the minute ones. Why do couples visit marriage counselors? I think in my opinion, it’s not like the husband and the wife are both stranded or don’t know what to do, to a reasonable extent. But because the counselor will hit the nail on the head and won’t exercise sentiment or prejudice.

Decision making is one of the core things in our lives. I am responsible for the state of my life, and so are you. Even as we all go around, seeking counsels, visit pastor for counsel, talk to a friend and the likes. If my friends should mislead me, may be she didn’t mean to do that, but I’m being misled anyway, it’s not her fault, it’s my fault because this is my life not hers.

God doesn’t have someone He goes to, to seek counsel, what!!? He is wise on His own. Isaiah 40:14 says it all. If the God that never make mistake is my Lord, how fortunate I am. The messiah which is the Christ has a gift for us this season, He wants to direct you and I to the right way, and I can trust Him because He is all-wise.

Are you stranded? And you don’t know what to do. It’s not too late to seek the only wise counselor. Do you know you can know what to do and you don’t even know how to do it? Once you do it in the wrong way, you will get it all wrong. But Jesus can teach you what to do, how to do it and when to do it.

His name is Counselor. Nothing is attached to it, there are medical counselors, academic counselors, marriage counselors, the list goes on. A marriage counselor might not be able to give wise academic counsels . But He is the counselor, that is, He is not restricted to a certain angle, He can give counsels on anything. I have a lot to know before this year runs out, I must run to the counselor to celebrate this Christmas. I trust He won’t mislead me.

I won’t ask for fish and He will offer scorpion. Not even my daddy will do that, how much more the one who came to this world to give His life for me, what can be more precious than the life of a man? , then I  believe He can give me anything I need. He will lead me.

You may seem to know what to do, but lean not on your own understanding, your friend can be very wise, but acknowledge Him and He shall direct your path.

Too Much | Wonderful

WONDERFUL

It’s nice to see another day, thank God for that. Started the series A Trip To Israel two days back, I’m glad we are in this journey together. Yesterday, we were able to know the significance of names, and of course the power that the name of Christ carries.

One of His names is Wonderful and I also wrote on the headline “Too Much”, He is too much and more than enough. It is awesome to say God is wonderful, how about knowing that He is not only wonderful, but His name is actually Wonderful. Meaning He is full of wonders. This Christmas season as Santa Claus comes around, kids gets gifts from Santa, when the kids open their packages, they discover different gifts. My gifts differ from yours. This Christ we are celebrating in this Christmas is full of different wonders. Not just a particular wonder, He can do what no man can do, just name it.

I actually called this series nuggets of Christmas. And we are looking at His names, which I called who He is. I am doing that so we can celebrate Christmas in a more unique way, celebrating with understanding,  eating those rice and chickens with understanding and thanksgiving. Such that, even without Christmas chicken, you are happy that you are celebrating it the right way, which is by focusing on Christ whom we are celebrating.

It’s not a sin if you don’t eat chicken on Christmas (*winks*). So don’t feel incomplete without it. Jesus is wonderful and His name is called Wonderful. You can enjoy and experience His wonders this season. What an amazing thing to point at certain miracles in your life that happened just in the season of Christmas. I myself don’t just want to merry in fun alone but merry much more in His wonders during this season.

A woman touched the hem of His garment and was made whole, what a wonder! You can touch Him too and pray over those issues, trust me, His garment is still full of wonders. Don’t let this Christmas pass without you demonstrating your faith to Him that you believe He is wonderful. Enter Christmas before Christmas comes and enjoy your best Christmas ever.

The best Christmas is not the Christmas with many gifts, tables of food, nice outfits and footwear, vacations and the likes, but the best Christmas is the Christmas where your focus is Christ. Ruminate upon His wonderful acts, take a trip to Israel and read His acts of wonders. Study Him and you won’t remain the same again. He still does wonders because His name is called wonderful. He is too much.

Join me again tomorrow.

That Wonderful Name | His Names

HIS NAMES

Merriam Webster dictionary defined name as a word or phrase that constitutes distinctive designation of a person or thing. Even if you actually fell from the sky, you still have a name, don’t you?. Parents are responsible in the act of naming their children. You possibly would not have opened your mouth to give yourself a name when you were born. Someone has  to give you a name.

Names are not just a routine, it’s important to have a name. What do I call you if you don’t have a name? Well I could call you anything, just like everyone else will do. Names are primarily for the purpose of identification and recognition. But then, names also have great significance. A man was once named Jabez, meaning sorrow, this man had to pray before the Lord could bless him, he must have seen  sorrow indeed.

These days we give ourselves names, nick name or pet name to be precise. Just make sure that your nick name is not such that carries an unpleasant meaning, and forbid anyone that calls you unpleasant names. You will hear names like spider, snake etc, what good will a spider do than sting. Your attitude can give you a name, someone who eats a lot might end up being called FFO(for food only). You sure don’t want to be busy with food alone, there is much to do.

As Christmas is approaching, don’t forget Jesus is the Christ we are celebrating. He has many names. His names are simply who He is. It’s not about just identifying Him. His names had been prophesied before He came at all, though He was in existence before the world was made. But He came as a man into the world. I listed His names in the last post. You have heard or seen those names before,(Isaiah 9:6). His Names are much more than that. Let’s just focus on the ones prophesied by Isaiah in the chapter nine of his book.

His names are a pointer to the things He came to the world to do, and what He is still doing now. There is no other name above His names, only His name can do all things and break all yoke. Wow! What manner of a name is that? It’s a wonderful name. Whosoever shall call on His name shall be saved. His name carries power and anointing, His name is distinct and special. You can’t just call His name in vain, it’s one of His commandments. (Exodus 20:7).

So, as we are marking and celebrating His birth this season, give honour to His name. You don’t have to call Him brother Jesus, He is even more than that, you can call Him that and still dishonour His name. Our Father who hath in heaven, hallow be Thy name. Honour Him and believe in His name.

He is the reason for the season. Let’s continue tomorrow as we start to  check out His names one after the other. Merry in this Christmas as you read, share with friends and do His word.

My name is Precious. Meaning something of high value. I’m Precious. And I believe I am. What’s your own name? Do you understand the meaning of your name? Do you believe in your name? Take any of your names and leave your comments. See you tomorrow.

A Trip to Israel | Nuggets of Christmas

Whoopee! It’s just few days  to Christmas 2016. When I was much younger I always anticipate Christmas, I joyfully wait for that 25th December. 25th November I anticipate much more because that’s when I get the chance to play Christmas songs. I even smelled Christmas those days.

Those were simply childhood fun, I call it childhood fun since what I usually anticipate is the Christmas meats and rice and my Christmas wears. Is Christmas rice different from the rice I’ve been eaten months before Christmas? Nope! It’s just the atmosphere around it.

I still love Christmas and will always anticipate it till Christ comes. There is just more to Christmas than the merry behind it. It’s amazing to know that Christmas is just about seven days and few hours from now. What happened to that joy that usually overwhelm me? Seems I’m getting older (*winks*). I love Christmases, it’s always fun.

There is more to Christmas, yes, and there is much more to it. I want to take a journey back to Israel. Israel is the love of God, God loves Israel so much, later and now, He stretched forth His hand of love to the whole world, Israel now is not only the love of God but the whole wide world too.

Let’s together check seven nuggets of christmas. It’s no fun when we forget the reason for the season. I want to take a trip back to Israel. The Bible contains a lot about the lives of the Israelites, and it’s amazing that we can live our lives on the records in the Bible. It’s simply God’s Word.

The Seven Nuggets Of Christmas

  • That Wonderful Name  | His Names
  • Too much | Wonderful
  • I am stranded | Counselor
  • All things are possible | Powerful God
  • Undying | Everlasting God
  • Even a King | Prince of Peace
  • The Reason For the Season | Jesus

Let’s start checking them from tomorrow 19th December, to 25th December. Follow me to Israel, it’s gonna be an awesome journey.

My Thought on the Tech gods and the Ancient gods | Part II

“This is one of the exciting period of this organization, as we always do every year, it’s the first time we are having a president, and I’m privileged to be the first president of TEC”… He continued his speech. And I was wondering what TEC even mean. “They even called it an organization, could this be more than what we know?”. I was still looking around and didn’t even know when the angelic princess mounted the stage again, angelic princess, because I can’t stand myself calling her an angelic devil anymore, she is far better than that, the devil knows we will recognize him when he comes with horns, so it is only good to fear people in white, they could be the angelic devil, let’s just forget about colours, and stop calling old women witch, fair skin ladies mermaid, and the lady in red a devil.

“Thank you Mr. President for that speech, I believe the elite club is going places”, the angelic princess said. “Oh so that’s what TEC actually mean, men won’t stop abbreviating anything” I thought within me, that’s how a young man once said his name was OMO, and I was wondering if the OMO detergent was named after him, it was later I got to know that his full name was actually Olutobi Martin Oyeleye, people won’t stop confusing us. I could call myself DOPA too, ooops, it doesn’t sound too cool though.

The first student representing MAN came and declared all the assets MAN had, his companies, money and so on, it would not have made any sense if he was not able to compare his assets to that of TECH and ANCIENT, but as we all know that the first man to talk in court is always right, so everything he said sounded convincing, but we’ve got to hear from the other debaters too. We clapped our hands after the whole thing was said, the other guy also came and talked about the innovations of TECH, Technology is selling these days, talking about different computers, Internet, several machines, and so on. He successfully made us believe that 80% of the things that now exist today and actively functioning is as a result of the talents of TECH. Apart from the fact that TECH is wealthy, he is also very important in the society and everyone loves him and he also have a great stand in the society. This even made us more convinced that he is wealthier than MAN, because the only thing we know about MAN is that he have many possessions and that’s all, but we can’t even decide yet until we hear from ANCIENT. In debates I’ve come to realize that the last person to speak is often at an advantage, because he would have heard a lot of things from all the parties involved, and if he is the kind of a smart fellow, he will use the words of his opponent to defeat them.

Now the last debater came out representing ANCIENT and started with a mysterious quote, “A blind eye with a blind man Is tantamount to death, a blind eye is only an eye accident but a blind mind is total blindness”. “What is this guy saying, blind eye, blind mind, bla bla “. ” Among these three elites, two of them knows their stand, they know their place in wealth and know they are not the richest but the richest does not even know that he is the richest, so he is as good as the poorest, I wonder what he is doing in TEC, I am representing ANCIENT and I say good evening to all “. He stopped and looked around for a while and continued.

” We should all know that a man that owns a servant owns everything the servant has, ANCIENT is a god, and we know that a god is what people serve and bow down to. A god have a way of controlling the minds of his worshipers, every gods have certain laid down rules of a proper worship, a god doesn’t have a mouth to speak, but use the mouth of his worshipers, a god doesn’t eat food but eat what MAN may not want to eat, am talking about sacrifices, when men use humans for rituals and sacrifices. A god have a sense of possession towards man because he steals away the mind of man, a god can give you everything but to the god himself, he knows he has given nothing, anything that MAN bows to is a god. In ancient times, people were known to serve certain gods, and they worship them physically, they acknowledge them and bow to them physically, there are still ancient gods but it has reduced over time, gods doesn’t want MAN to serve the true God and so he redesigned himself from a wooden god to a golden god, such that people will serve him without knowing it. MAN wants to serve God but because he wants to watch television a bit more, gods came in and made him continue watching, television is not a god but he can use it to attain his goal, MAN wants to surf the Internet a bit longer and forget to read the Bible, the Internet is not a god, but god can use it to attain his goal, MAN wants to have money and enjoy life and so forget the Love of God, money is not a god but god can use it to attain his goals. MAN wants to eat nice delicacies and so forget about fasting, food is not a god, but god can use it to attain his goals, he can use anything that man has or love to make him worship him and take MAN farther from God, his dreams, and purpose. Since man doesn’t want to bow down to other gods knowingly, gods can make him bow unknowingly. TECH is one of god’s instruments, TECH is good to all that use it wisely  and a god to those that use it and forget the true God, since god can control MAN using this method,  ANCIENT god is the richest, but MAN is actually the richest when he learn to dominate the gods rather than the gods dominating him “.

Everyone was silent as if they were dead, if a pin drops that day, it could make a deep sound. He continued speaking with an obvious sign that he was rounding up.

” I will end on this note, ANCIENT gods are not dead, they are only transformed, MAN came late for this program because he watched a season film yesternight and slept in. He ended up waking up thirty minutes before the scheduled time for the program, he took a rush bath, a rush brushing and even rushed here, he could not observe his devotion all because of his previous attitude. So I will leave you to your thoughts about the Ancient gods and the Tech gods and man as a god himself, he was made in God’s image, he is a small god, think about it on a personal note, the richest between you and the gods. Man can be wealthy indeed, but what is his wealth when the gods can control him using his TECH and his desires?. I rest my case”. Everyone present, including myself, we were all in a sad mood and everyone was left with his thought. I don’t know what happened to the rest of the party because I stopped thinking, you can imagine the rest.

This is my Thought on the Tech gods and the Ancient gods, gods are gods either golden or wooden.

My Thought on the Tech gods and the Ancient gods | Part I

There was a party in town, and in fact, it’s not some cheap parties that have been flying around these days, this is a party of the elite. This party was sponsored by the elite club, there were many clubs of influential men and women, but the elite club was known to be the most influential and even the overseer of other influential clubs. Talking about the less privilege, this is a party they can’t afford because there was nothing like regular fee, you are either a VIP or a VVIP, yes, it is also known that people are wealthier than one another. So if you are a poor man, don’t even think about it. Mr. TECH, Mr. MAN and Mr. ANCIENT were very wealthy and of course, their wealth is the talk of the people in town, no one knows who is wealthier among these three elites, it is not a good idea to have three drivers on a driver’s sit, yes, you can have many passengers, just one driver is needed. Since the three of them are wealthy, the other elites just have to cast their votes for their president, not on the basis of wealth, but on the choice of the people. So Mr. MAN was elected as the president, while Mr. ANCIENT was chosen as the vice president and Mr. TECH as the general secretary.

The D. Day came as programmed. Oh my, see different women in trendy outfits , the men were also in their different designer suits, their suits would not have been less than a million whatever, you are asking me how I knew? If you were there your comment would be more exagerated. I noticed a young lady in particular, she wore this designer red gown, the upper part was covered with gold, I’m not saying it was coloured with a golden colour, no! It was pure gold, her red shoes were something to write home about, “this is a red angelic devil”, I thought within me, angelic because she was looking great and devil because everything she wore was just red. But then,” how come this young lady could make it here? “. She definitely was in her early twenties. May be her parents are very wealthy. She sat down quietly after exchanging pleasantries with few other elites present.

After about twenty minutes, when everyone was on their VIP or the VVIP sit, the program took off, Mr. MAN was the reason why the program started late, just about five minutes late. The young lady I was referring to mounted the stage. I knew she was not an ordinary folk, she must definitely be something, she definitely was not the only elegant young lady in there and in fact there were several other young ladies and young men in there, I don’t know why she caught my attention so much.

“Good evening ladies and gentlemen, it’s the night that we all have been waiting for, it’s gonna rock tonight, trust me, before I continue, I have one announcement to make, we have in our midst three students from a renown high school, you sure know what am talking about ” she smiled, just like everyone did. ” These three students will engage in a debate, they will debate on the wealthiest between TECH, MAN and ANCIENT. There was an uproar of exciting noise . “Oh my, so, it’s possible we know the wealthiest tonight?”, I thought within me as well. “now, I will invite the president for his speech, let’s give him a round of applause” she handed the microphone to him.

Watch out for Part II of My Thought on the tech gods and ancient gods.

DIGNIFIED

DIGNIFIED 

T. D Jakes in one of his books wrote, “You actually train others how to treat you by how you treat yourself”. A lady should always reflect dignity. A lady that has lost her dignity, has lost something vital in her life, some don’t see anything in dignity, some have confused dignity with pride, while some don’t even know dignity exist. If you fall into any of the categories mentioned, you’re likely to live life anyhow, and since you don’t believe in dignity, or act dignified, nobody will see you that way. You are worth what you believe you worth. Dignity is worth a million and it is even priceless. Never let go of dignity for any reason. Trials and temptation will fight your dignity, if you hold on, they can’t overcome you. Esau in the Holy Scriptures sold his dignity, and wished he never did. People will respect you, they will trust you and great opportunities awaits a dignified life. Dignity in a simple term is a sense of your own importance. You are wonderfully made, believe it! 

Perhaps you have lost your dignity. There is hope when there is life. Gather yourself together again, correct those errors in your life and start again. Are you worried about those that knows about your past? It doesn’t matter my dear, the day you decide to start anew, you become a new creature that day. Jesus can give you a fresh start. Acknowledge Him as your saviour. He is able.

Purpose Of Humanity

Got a feed back from a friend few weeks back , asking to expatiate more on the sentence “… She is a NATION” (see https://daprenita.wordpress.com/2016/11/03/the-lady-and-the-gentleman/). Capitalizing it brought much attention to it, and of course, it is good to pay attention to that. The man Is a Nation as well. Nation in this context is Obviously not the dictionary meaning, more like a metaphor ,I will like to give it this meaning “a great subject” Yes! The lady is a Nation, I remember using this illustration, that, the building of a home is in the hand of the wife, how the children will grow into wonderful kids , it is in the hand of the wife, also know that single fathers can  also raise wonderful kids too but that’s on a rare occasion, the children if still young will still need someone like a mother to take care of them, but here we are looking at the singular responsibility of the parents . You could attest to seeing a gentle husband with a wayward wife, how will the family look like?. There was a Nabal and an Abigail at a time, Nabal was an indifferent man, but he fortunately had a wise wife who prevented a situation that would have wiped off his whole lineage, this Abigail prevented this and also prevented another man from shedding blood and take law into his hands. God in the Holy Scriptures made it clear that “Homes are made by the wisdom of women” (GNB). A house can collapse if the woman there is not wise, everything that the world has become today started from the family, the man have his  responsibilities, yet the woman’s responsibilities can’t be overemphasized, the home can’t be built without a lady, and if all the ladies in the world are wise, then the world can also be a better place. So, for her to be wise she must know this and set aside herself to grow to a wise lady, that’s why I said she is a nation because she plays a great role in the home and which afterwards affects the country. Here in Nigeria, especially in Yoruba land, it is believed that a good child belongs to the father, while the bad one to the mother, meanwhile, the same mother brought up these two children, the more reason why she must be strong enough to raise wonderful children, a bad child is the shame of his mother. Before they blame the father they would have blamed the mother, even though they both have their responsibility over the children and it is their fault if their children becomes wayward, however, the home needs a wise lady for the future of the kids, for the peace of her husband and for the betterment of the country. And she must know that becoming wise starts from NOW. A woman alone can’t build the home, we will later check the indispensable responsibility of the man as well in other to strike a balance.
Now let’s look at purpose of humanity.

PURPOSE OF HUMANITY
Humanity is made up of the male and the female. The utmost purpose of humanity is to help one another, help the family, help the society and the nation at large, irrespective of the gender. It is obvious that our society needs help, and in each individual is embedded a well of virtues that is enough or more than enough to make the world a better place. If there is a patient suffering from malaria, he needs the help of a physician, but if he is left there, he could die. The same goes for our environment, if the environment is denied of the help it needs, so many things will happen. We have been able to know what the two genders stands for. There comes a time in our environment when we give excuses, trying to dodge our God-given responsibilities, you hear people say “I can’t do that, it’s not what I do, it’s a work of a man, it’s a work of a woman”. There are several widows, widowers, single mothers and single fathers, orphans, motherless and fatherless babies. It is no surprise that despite the situations these ones finds themselves, many still do well,  Orphans still make it in life, so why should you be nonchalant about life and giving up easily? A one time governor in a South-West State in Nigeria, Olagunsoye Oyinlola, whose parents died when at a tender age of nine still ended up a governor. This is not luck, neither is it an accident. We need to understand that no matter what circumstance of life is, there is still something great lying inside of you, storm can affect everything around you but you will have to choose not to allow storm to blow away the greatness in you. The fingers are not equal, so circumstance are not the same, some are born with silver spoon in their mouth, some are born into a poor family, being in a poor family doesn’t limit your greatness in life, one mysterious thing is that none of us chose the family we are, but we will have to choose what we will become . Opportunity is the hallmark of greatness, as poor or as rich as you are, there is one opportunity very close to you to make you rich or richer.
What I am saying in essence is you are born to help matters, there is a gap you are born to fill, when you choose to fill this gap, then you are fulfilling the purpose of humanity. Do not despise the days of little beginning, you might not be where you want to be but make sure you don’t remain on the same spot. Help yourself, help your family, help the society and help the nation. Looking aback from where we started this series (The lady and the gentleman , understanding my place, and purpose of humanity). It will be good to draw a link and a conclusion. The lady is to be a godly being who understands her nature and her role, the man Is a godly being who also must understands his  responsibility and what he stands for, these two have different purpose for which they are made just like everyone on earth serves different purpose. The parts of a human body is a very suitable example, every parts serves differently but they work together to achieve a particular aim which is the health of the human body. The society needs these two characters. After knowing that we are two different people and understanding what we symbolize, it is also important for each to understand his/her place in order to discourage competition, God did not make them so they can compete, they are made to help one another, in the Church, in school, at work, in the family, in marriage and in the society. So, dear ladies and gentlemen, understand your place and don’t compare yourself with anyone either same sex or opposite sex, only compare yourself with who you really are, keep comparing yourself with your God-given purpose as you work it out daily until you attain your God-given purpose. When you understand your place, also don’t forget what the human purpose is, which is to help matter, to see to it that the world is living in harmony and peace, see to it that you are not causing pain to your fellow human. Some people today have understood their place, they know where they should be and they are there but they turned away from humanity and God and pleasing themselves. They no longer have human feeling, this thwart in thinking right has caused several leaders in the country to care less about the situations outside , greediness is now the order of the day. Dear Ladies and Gentlemen, a reward awaits you, whether you do good or otherwise. But it is wise to help matter and not make it worse, you will reap what you sow. No pain is small, pain is pain, don’t cause pain to others, you are made in God’s likeness, live your life that way.